Discover Now How To Secure A Successful Outcome In Your Divorce!

If, like many other sensible individuals, you agree that "the likelihood of you achieving your desired outcome in your divorce depends largely on you having winning strategies in place", then you should read on.

Let's be honest about this. The importance of strategic planning in divorce is often being overlooked and very often it is completely absent in divorces cases, regardless of who the parties are or the extent of their wealth.

Clear goals and strategies are essential to your success in virtually anything in life and the lack of goals and strategies, almost always leads to a disappointing outcome, if not to a financial and personal disaster.

"Sheer Luck" "The service I received from Bains Cohen has been outstanding and the fact that I found this company online just when I was experiencing one of the most challenging times in my life was by SHEER LUCK. It is exactly what it says on the tin — honest, direct, straight forward and very strategic. The results they achieved for me were outstanding and I will be eternally grateful to the people who handled my case at Bains Cohen." Cirillo Ragasa

"I was extremely worried that in a divorce case money would just be swallowed but it was strategically spent as promised in a worthwhile to the point way with no wastage." "In difficult circumstances and in an unknown territory to me I found all your staff reassuring, highly competent and efficient. I was extremely worried that in a divorce case money would just be swallowed but it was strategically spent as promised in a worthwhile to the point way with no wastage. I have achieved exactly the result that I wished for thanks to you all. I personally highly recommend your firm, Bains Cohen. It is also worth noting that I was never going to be one of your more lucrative customers but that made absolutely no difference to the service and expertise I received. So thanks." Debbie Springham, Essex

"I am glad I made that one phone call to you" "I want to thank you for bringing my ancillary relief matter to a close. I felt instant confidence in you, because, unlike my previous lawyer, you took the time to listen to me and then acted to minimise my greatest concerns. Stephen's spreadsheet was a stroke of genius. I am glad I made that one phone call to you and I will actively recommend you to anyone who is looking for a decent divorce lawyer. Thanks again. Dr Krys Williams

"Keeping me positively focussed made proceedings much easier to manage and deal with". "I want to thank everyone at Bains Cohen that I have engaged with during these past 13 months, for ALL the professional and emotional support and advice given to me throughout. You have all played such a significant part in keeping me positively focussed that made proceedings much easier to manage and deal with. Whilst divorce is never easy at the best of times and mine certainly did not fall into that category, so many positives have come out of it including re-discovering myself again but even more importantly I truly feel I have made some great and hopefully long-lasting friendships with yourself which I don't believe happens that often. I look forward to nurturing this friendship."

In divorce, what matters the most is not necessarily how much money was spent on legal fees by the time the divorce was concluded, but rather how this amount of money was invested and whether or not your investment has landed you with the desired outcome.
In short, most people want their investment to get them to where they want to be as quickly and as safely as possible.

Putting in place winning strategies and following a clear plan to help you achieve your desired result, be it a favourable financial settlement during your divorce or to secure residence of your child, will almost always enhance your ability to achieve your desired outcome from your divorce because in a divorce, like in life generally, we are all far more likely to arrive at our desired destination faster and safer working with a plan, than without one.

"A massive differentiator." "I will never underestimate the value of your responsiveness and kind words of support during this time. I have had stressful jobs but nothing has prepared me for the stress of divorce, nothing. You have really helped me over the last year, I hope that that part of your service never changes, it is a massive differentiator."

"A very very good start to a very happy year...." "I have just received a package by courier and just wanted to say thank you very much for the chocolates - a nice surprise and very much appreciated. I will have to limit to one or two a day as my clothes are already feeling slightly smaller than there were. My sincere thanks for your patience and support through my divorce which as it turned out to be a very very good start to a very happy year. Many thanks again - wishing you all the very best. With thanks," Tara

"When I felt like I was pulling my hair out, you always made me realise we could sort it out!" "I really do appreciate everything you did throughout the process with the divorce. Everything I said below is true, you really do make each client feel like they are the only client on your books. It was a long battle and when I felt like I was pulling my hair out, you always made me realise we could sort it out! You, at Bains Cohen have been professional, helpful and understanding at all times. Thanks once again and I would definitely use Bains Cohen again in the future for any legal requirements I had. I will recommend Bains Cohen to friends and family in the future as a company who makes each client feel like they are the only client." Jane Phillips PA to Tony Wright University of East London

Clear goals and strategies are essential to your success in virtually anything in life and the lack of goals and strategies, almost always leads to a disappointing outcome, if not to a financial and personal disaster.

If you still feel unsure about the link between the outcome of your divorce and  your strategies or the lack of them, then consider this fact:

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Most shoppers go to the supermarket to buy their weekly groceries armed with a clear goal and a defined plan. They have a budget, of let’s say £100 and a list (written or unwritten) of needs. Their goal is to purchase the required groceries within their budget. Their strategy in achieving their goal is to walk through the supermarket isles using a system which they have developed and to pick up along the way the products on their list, keeping an eye on the budget.

The rest of the shoppers, who do not fall within this category, are normally the ones who almost always return home with the wrong items having forgotten to buy the items which are far more needed for their survival and well-being. This category of shoppers will almost always be worse off financially, often very substantially, and the result they have arrived at will be far more inferior to the outcome achieved by the many shoppers who did use a plan, even unconsciously.

Now you can see that there isn’t necessarily a correlation between the amount of money you may spend on your divorce and the outcome which you will end up arriving at. Ultimately this means that most of the time, it is the STRATEGY which makes the difference between success and failure rather than the amount of money spent. In fact, the larger the sum of money you are going to spend on your divorce, the more likely you are to be distracted and to lose focus on your goals.

In fact, regardless of how rich or poor you are, you should not spend a penny on anything relating to your divorce without first having clear, powerful and trusted strategies as to how you are going to facilitate your desired outcome with minimum harm to your own well-being and to your pocket.

When you conduct your divorce with clear strategies in mind, you arrive at your desired outcome healthier and richer.

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"I am very pleased" "You explained my options to me at what was a very difficult time for me and you put me at great ease. I am very pleased to thank Bains Cohen Solicitors and hope that they long continue their good work as solicitors. Thank you again and best wishes." Mrs L Williams

Setting long term strategic goals for the conduct of their divorce enables most people to gain control over the process, so that they can influence the outcome of almost each and every aspect of their divorce.

Knowing, understanding and planning every step in your divorce, from the outset, starting as early as the moment your mind had been made up or at the time when you first suspected that your spouse might be contemplating divorce proceedings, will give you a clearer path to follow allowing you to protect what is yours.

Setting out financial, commercial, personal and emotional goals as early as you can in the divorce process is likely to turn out to be one of the most decisive factors in determining your ability and the speed by which you will successfully progress following the divorce. From a strategic point of view, the lack of planning and an absence of clear strategy will always increase the likelihood of failure and its magnitude, regardless of who you are or of your current financial position. To put it bluntly, lack of strategic planning in divorce has cost some wealthy individuals many millions of pounds and has resulted in total emotional breakdown for others."

Why is it important to strategically plan a divorce?

The answer is very intersting. Planning, simply put, helps us initiate change to our benefit both consciously and deep down from the subconscious level. In other words, planning makes us proactive, which is the opposite of being reactive.

As is the case in most relationships, one party tends to be more dominant than the other, which means they have more influence over the success or failure of the relationship. The other party is largely more reactive and as such they allows themselves to be led on a path, which they have had very little influence over.

Normally, a situation of divorce will arise at the point where this arrangement is no longer acceptable to one of the parties, predominantly, the previously reactive party. During the divorce process, as a matter of habit, both parties tend to go back to the old arrangement of dominance and before realising it, the previously reactive party becomes reactive again, and there is now a real risk that the outcome of the divorce will be exactly the same as the outcome of the marriage.

But this does not necessarily have to be the case, because starting the divorce process with coherent strategic planning and marching through the tough journey of the divorce process armed with razor sharp focus on your desired outcome, will eventually bring you the successful outcome which you desire.

Yes. Even in divorce, as is the case with marriage, there is success and failure and the undisputed key to achieving a successful outcome in divorce is the planning.
The first important divorce strategy, which is applicable particularly to high earners, but not just, is to always remember the difference between wars and battles. It is often too easy to get distracted during a divorce by the other party dragging you into participating in small, and sometimes pathetic, battles.

To achieve your goals, you only need to win the strategically important battles which means spending time and energy on anything else, will not only weaken you, but will also reduce your financial and mental resources.

I already have a divorce lawyer, can I still get in touch with you?

If you already have solicitors acting for you, this does not mean that you are not entitled to have a second opinion or to compare or add new strategies to the ones offered to you already, by your current lawyer.

In fact, if you feel that the outcome of your divorce is going to be instrumental to the way you continue to live your life, both in terms of finances and well-being, it will definitely be worth your while to book your money back guaranteed consultation, because we admit that we do not fall into the category of the so called ‘conventional lawyers’. This means that we are likely to approach your divorce from a slightly different angle and so even a small bit of advice, perhaps a single thought or an idea which we discuss with you, might turn out to be the most significant legal contribution you have had so far.


We appreciate that our approach might not be for everybody's taste. But if you are the type of person who prefers control over lack of control, a clear path over a messy jungle, certainty over uncertainty and gain over waste, then you should really call us now on 0208 252 7373

Why not take advantage of our unique offer of a RISK FREE, money back guaranteed  90 minutes initial consultation and discover how a strategic divorce can save you stress, time and money. We guarantee you value. It's that simple.

If you are at the stage of contemplating or considering a divorce, you will find our advice practical and sensible to the extent that you will be able to develop a strategic vision on how to go about achieving your desired outcome.

But if your divorce is already under way, whether or not solicitors have been involved yet, and you feel that the whole process is missing an important ingredient such as strategic planning, then you will certainly benefit from speaking to us and letting us share with you our un-biased advice.

"To have a lawyer more concerned about helping resolve my issue than his fee, was almost unbelievable." “One thing Bains Cohen was most concerned about was whether or not I needed a lawyer or whether with a little guidance, it was a case I could resolve to my satisfaction without paying him a fee! That was a refreshing change in any business, especially in these economic times. To have a lawyer to be more concerned about helping resolve my issue than his fee, was almost unbelievable. If you are looking for a knowledgeable, ethical and intelligent lawyer whose focus is you and your situation, that is more concerned with helping than he is getting paid, I can think of no other lawyer I would rather have on my side.” Simon Bradbury

In fact, I am not even sure if I want to get divorced at all. For now I just need a bit of initial legal advice to understand where I stand so that I can consider all my options in my own time. I don't want to get ‘pulled’ into making any decisions yet.

If you are at the stage of contemplating or considering a divorce, you will find our advice practical and sensible to the extent that following your consultation with us you will be able to develop a strategic vision on how to go about achieving your desired outcome.

We will discuss with you generally your relationship with your spouse, your finances and your goals. By the end of the consultation you will feel confident to go and make decisions in your own time.

We charge for the consultation an affordable £313, mainly to cover our administrative costs, which means we never use the consultation to try and sell you our services. This small charge also gives an opportunity to those who cannot normally afford our services, to benefit form strategic advice about their divorce. 

"I would recommend your company to all right minded people who are new to divorce and are maybe thus scared or unsure." "I found the solicitor I spoke to excellent because she listened FIRST!!. She appeared to have time for me which i was not expecting from a solicitor.... Her advice was great and she did not scare me into any action which invloved giving money to Bains Cohen. She came across as pro marriage with a divorce as a last resort which I believe is the right approach. She was very professional and friendly. I would recommend your company to all right minded people who are new the divorce and are maybe thus scared or unsure. Many many thanks"

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"It's handy being able to get advice by phone rather than an appointment face to face" “Whilst I had a good idea of my legal position already, I needed to check for sure. You gave me total reassurance and confidence. I had booked an hour but had an in depth answer within half an hour. It's handy being able to get advice by phone rather than an appointment face to face. Other solicitors seemed more interested in their fee than my inquiry"

Strategic Divorce "Divorce cases and divorce settlements should be carefully planned otherwise they can go on forever, cost a fortune and eventually get you nowhere." "We believe in a no-nonsense approach to uncooperative spouses and the lawyers who represent them, and never take prisoners, but this by itself is still might not get us far enough without a good plan." "The advice that we give is stretched far beyond considerations of ‘pure’ legal issues or factors. It is rather more focused on your personal circumstances and your long term aims and goals." "We help you identify those aims and we keep you focused on achieving them. You should expect from us to apply a logical and practical approach to your divorce, and to stay sharply focussed on helping you attain your goals."