Why do fathers never give up on seeing their children?
For a change, there are some good news out there for you.
Despite of or
perhaps because of the huge amount of bad press, matters are now improving very rapidly in relation to father’s rights.
The courts are becoming more and more sensible in relation to what is considered to be ‘the best interest of the child’ and shared custody is something that you should be able to achieve although you are going to have to fight for it a little bit.
If your ex’s behaviour has become totally out of order, I find that on many occasions there are good grounds to apply for sole custody on the bafsis of the ex's behaviour even though most frequently you will end up agreeing to joint custody.
If you have good grounds for applying for sole custody, do so by all means with or without our help. Start high, get the process going, take control and dictate the agenda. After years of messing you around, your ex has most probably become a bit complacent. This is only natural and when this happens, you stand the best chance of successfully claiming what is yours.
Many fathers who don’t see their children regularly have tried and tried again but have experienced so many set backs that they hardly got any strengths left in them to keep fighting.
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I now know that fathers who want to see their children and are denied this right, never actually give up. Sometimes it takes a few years to recover from the last defeat but somehow they do regain their strength to commence a new battle all over again.
I admit, every defeat makes it harder to try and have another go but the fact is that things are changing in respect of the attitude of the courts towards father's rights and we see more happy fathers (and children) than ever before. You might have been through the family courts already and so your expectations might be low, but this is not necessarily a bad think.
I hear so often fathers saying things such as ‘this is my last chance’ or , 'If this time it doesn’t work out, then I will probably have to come to term with the fact that I will not see my kids until such time where they are no longer children.’ Those fathers will actually never be able to give up. It is simply impossible for them to do so. The problem is not with the fathers (who are in reality incapable of giving up) but with their advisors who love so much to settle on things which everyone apart from them knows are not going to work.
To successfuly claim what you have been deprived of for months and years, you must have loads and loads of stamina. You must believe that this time you WILL arrive at a permanent arrangement to gain full custody of the children, share custody with your ex or see your children as often as you wish. In fact, if you do not believe that you can achieve this (which I very much doubt), then don’t bother to read on because lack of belief will seriously hinder your chances of changing the status quo and you will only set yourself to fail. I do not want you or any of our other clients to fight a lost battle (it is not very good for our statistics ....only a joke), because I know that if you fail this time, it would probably take you another few years to recover and get the strength to start it all over again and those years would be lost forever. So please contact us only if you are serious about seeing your kids. We really don’t want you to waste more time, energy and money on abortive attempts.
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I hear so often fathers saying things such as ‘this is my last chance’ or , 'If this time it doesn’t work out, then I will probably have to come to term with the fact that I will not see my kids until such time where they are no longer children.’ Those fathers will actually never be able to give up. It is simply impossible for them to do so. The problem is not with the fathers (who are in reality incapable of giving up) but with their advisors who love so much to settle on things which everyone apart from them knows are not going to work.
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To successfuly claim what you have been deprived of for months and years, you must have loads and loads of stamina. You must believe that this time you WILL arrive at a permanent arrangement to gain full custody of the children, share custody with your ex or see your children as often as you wish. In fact, if you do not believe that you can achieve this (which I very much doubt), then don’t bother to read on because lack of belief will seriously hinder your chances of changing the status quo and you will only set yourself to fail. I do not want you or any of our other clients to fight a lost battle (it is not very good for our statistics ....only a joke), because I know that if you fail this time, it would probably take you another few years to recover and get the strength to start it all over again and those years would be lost forever. So please contact us only if you are serious about seeing your kids. We really don’t want you to waste more time, energy and money on abortive attempts.
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If you decide that you are ready now to make a final attempt to force your ex to allow you to see your children, then I suggest you don't delay. Our children are growing up very rapidly and before we realise it they are no longer children.
Whenever you decide to do, don’t procrastinate on this. Make a decision and act. In fact, I don't believe that it is a coincidence that you arrived at this website in the first place and that you decided to read thus far. You are most definitely the type of person who prefers to be in control of the situation, like to have clear goals and be focused on the target. I assume that like many others in your position you have already spent good money on solicitor's fees. We don't want to take your money if we cannot guarantee you value. So decided about a years ago to offer a unique MONEY BACK GUARANTEED consultation (in person or over the phone, whichever is best for you). This means that if you are not one hundred percent satisfied with the advice that me or my colleagues have given you, we will offer you your money back there and then. In fact, we know that you will find our advice so practical and sensible so even if you decided that now is not the right time for you to instruct a lawyer to deal with this issue, you will still be happy with the advice we gave you.
To book your money back guaranteed initial consultation, call us on 0208 252 7373 and arrange your appointment with John at my office. If you prefer, or if you read this page late at night or over the weekend, you can ask us to call you back at a suitable time for you by entering your name and telephone number in the ‘call me back’ box in the left navigation bar. The cost of the consultation is £80 and we feel very comfortable to back it by our unique Money Back Guarantee offer. If are serious about seeing your children, there will be no better time and place for you to get started.
Whenever you decide to do, don’t procrastinate on this. Make a decision and act. In fact, I don't believe that it is a coincidence that you arrived at this website in the first place and that you decided to read thus far. You are most definitely the type of person who prefers to be in control of the situation, like to have clear goals and be focused on the target. I assume that like many others in your position you have already spent good money on solicitor's fees. We don't want to take your money if we cannot guarantee you value. So decided about a years ago to offer a unique MONEY BACK GUARANTEED consultation (in person or over the phone, whichever is best for you). This means that if you are not one hundred percent satisfied with the advice that me or my colleagues have given you, we will offer you your money back there and then. In fact, we know that you will find our advice so practical and sensible so even if you decided that now is not the right time for you to instruct a lawyer to deal with this issue, you will still be happy with the advice we gave you.
To book your money back guaranteed initial consultation, call us on 0208 252 7373 and arrange your appointment with John at my office. If you prefer, or if you read this page late at night or over the weekend, you can ask us to call you back at a suitable time for you by entering your name and telephone number in the ‘call me back’ box in the left navigation bar. The cost of the consultation is £80 and we feel very comfortable to back it by our unique Money Back Guarantee offer. If are serious about seeing your children, there will be no better time and place for you to get started.
